Shortly after the Black Forest Fire, Colorado
Public Radio interviewed a resident who had recently been allowed to return
to his property. He was fortunate in
that his home had been spared, despite the destruction of other homes
nearby. Recounting how he had only a few
minute’s notice to evacuate, the interviewer then asked the man what he had taken. He shared that he had taken some family
keepsakes and photo albums. The
interviewer then asked another intriguing question, that being what item or
items the man had not taken that he would have on second thought. While he mentioned an antique restoration
project in his garage, I myself pondered what items I would choose if in a
similar predicament.
Having given it some thought, there are certainly a few
things I would grab such as photo albums, my wife’s scrapbooks, and my journal.
I’m not sure there are many other “must haves.” Though CPR doesn’t have the
lists yet accessible of what others would grab, I imagine their lists would be
similar to mine; Family keepsakes, pictures, treasured notes, etc. It’s funny in a way to think about all the
things we would not be first to grab, the things that are worth the most
monetarily. Things like flat screen TV’s, computers, appliances, and so on.
Sure, someone might grab their laptop or tablet, but that surround sound stereo
is most likely staying put.
I’m reminded of the rom-com Leap Year, in
which Amy Adams’s character is challenged by a rival love interest to measure the
strength and depth of her current relationship based on what he would grab in
the event of a fire. Sure enough, back home and recently engaged, she pulls the
fire alarm and watches in stunned silence as her fiancé rushes around grabbing
technology. Realizing the relationship
has no depth or value she leaves him and goes off to the other guy.
What also comes to mind is the admonition in Matthew 6:19-20.
Here, Jesus is recorded advising his followers to not invest in things that can
be stolen or destroyed, but rather that which is everlasting. Isn’t that just the opposite of what we do
though? We buy into the consumerist mindset of having the latest tech gear, the trendiest fashions, and the most elegant furnishings. We work long
hours, sacrificing time with friends or family so we can make money to buy all
those “treasures;” otherwise known as all the things we will leave behind in a
fire and will subsequently get burned up or otherwise destroyed.
The past few years at Christmas I’ve tried to back away from
asking for gifts—stuff that’s just going to go bad or get destroyed. In fact, I’ve
began asking for things that won’t just end up in a landfill one day. I’d rather have gifts like a memorable
dinner, an unexpected surprise, or a special act. These are things which won’t
go bad and things which I can always take with me. And of course, relationships are what these
gifts are all about.
So let’s spend less time and money investing in things that
will go bad, get destroyed, or end up in a landfill. Rather let’s spend what
time and resources we have on each other, on our relationships—building on the
one’s we currently have and engaging in making new ones.—for it’s our
relationships and our memories that will always be with us.
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